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HOW TO MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPIER? this will be the common questions people ask on a gloomy day. Well i have found out a few ways that might work but of course it is not 100% proven to work on everybody.
Well lets have the first scenario:
It is Monday, your a guy, nothing much to expect in school(can replace with own place of conduct), single and don't seem to see any good in this day.
In seeing this, HOW TO MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPIER. Easssyyy,
1) kick that Monday blues habit, slap it off and tell yourself its Monday, i should start the day off with a happy heart.
2) Try to list out some interesting things to do like getting to know a girl or guy, doing good deeds, going for sports.
3) If you are a christian, Pray for God's blessing and joy to be upon you, Pray for a different heart and mind. Pray for the everlasting Joy and Love of God.
Ok if you think none of that can work, then there is one thing that you need to change to MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPIER.
CHANGE YOU MINDSET, STOP LOOKING IN THE PAST AND ENJOY THE PRESENT.
You know a friend told me that everytime we look at the past, we tend to miss out the good things in the present. SO kick the past away and enjoy what we have now, yes sometime it sucks, but just live with what you got.
Stop the depression from taking a hold of your life. everyone was meant to lead a happy and joyfull life, Everyone is blessed by God with a great day, enjoy it.
WE ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE, MAKE THE BEST OUT OF IT.
WE ONLY CAN LIVE THE DAYS ONCE, MAKE FULL USE OF IT, LIVE IT OUT.
WE WAKE UP, IT IS ANOTHER DAY, A NEW CHAPTER, FORGET THE PAST AND MOVE ON.
Hello and welcome to my blog once again, here i am again with yet another interesting and meaningful post, not emo one, i have changed.
Its another day in another week of another month of another year but this year was my year of challenge and also victories in life. As you all know i am a changed man now, i am happy and grateful in everything i have and i am very positive minded now.
This week however proves to be one of the more interesting and challenging week compared to the rest. This week i face yet again another challenge in life, I got a revisit by the demon of depression, yes he was back but thank God he was there to help me slain it, although he manage to get a hold of me for an hour or so, God once again saved me by being there for me.
This week the challenges that i face was to be wise in everything I do especially when i have an argument with a sibling, it takes a lot more humility and humbleness to calm down and think twice before speaking, now that is wisdom. Also, i had some problems in school, thought the pressure and stress was high, i manage to look to God for shelter from the bombardment of the world. Another thing is with GIRLS, yes i made a stupid mistake by trying to find a relationship, and it is very funny cause i can imagine Adrians voice right now probably saying:"See God sudah cakap jangan, you still want, Ok now he let you try, you sow what you reap..." HAHA no offence adrian if your read this, your still a great leader and bro in christ.
Somehow this girl was playing with me , when i started off by getting to know her, it was ok, she like me and i like her, She was very open, she laughed, i laughed, could see something was going on but nothing can beat this, I CAN NEVER UNDERSTAND GIRLS, they are so confusing and weird, no offence. First we were so close and she was so open to me and getting closer to me but all of the sudden she backs off me, and i was ok, its alright no problem, some space is good for the both of us but its very confusing as in What is she thinking about? and How does she want this to go? So i very sad, confused and lost but yet again thank God for mom's and of course his glorious wisdom, my mom manage to solve my problem, very easy she say, now the girl is playing hard to get, so reverse psychology, you do the same thing, back off and give her some space, she dont want to talk, fine. Just smile and wave but dont shun her off, it would be rude, in a way you may make her miss you. And i was like, so thats how things go, interesting.
After seeing, i plan to study on girls after graduating from psychology, it would be both benefical and interesting, we are both the same species just different gender but yet we dont seem to think the same and act the same, interesting?Bottom line, i am great right now cause deep down i know i am not going to get a relationship, i am just going to be friends, which by the way is much more cool and who say single is drag? Being SINGLE is SEXY, haha, bit too much.
Anyways moving on, today i was so filled with dissappointment for failing God and of course many more problems but God is always sovereign and great, I prayed for forgiveness and he did forgive and ask him to help me go back to the root of true joy that is him. And he did help me by blessing me with jogging, yes jogging with a childhood friend name Lee Yew Leung, a great guy, he teaceh me so much and i did'nt know so many interesting things about jogging and the methods and so son but the greatest part when he decided to help me push the limits, instead of my daily rounds of 10 rounds, he challenge me to go 20 rounds.
So i said yes, no harm right, boy was it tiring but the best part was that he was there to cheer me on and guide me, which was fantastic. He standing and jogging beside me is a 15 year old kid who is an althletic by the way, guiding me how to jog and teaching me, i felt great to be humble and learn from him. After the 20 rounds, i was happy because finally i achieve something that i wuold never have accomplish in my life. Joy was there as i left home and the last words he said really make me tear cause none of my friends would say this :"Ok see you ken, it was a PLEASURE jogging with YOU." I was so touch to know that at least i made someones day and know that someone still acknowledge my presence, not to say all my friends dont, just that this things rarely happen to me.
After going home, i decided to tag along with my mom in her daily walk at the park for protection prupose, so there was my mom, speed walking around the field as i take a slow and comfortable and was what beast is that i felt Jesus walking beside me, How COOL is that? Imagine JESUS right beside me, talking to me, i felt so blessed and happy. Today was such a blessed day.
In conclusion, though there was many trials and challenges, though i fell many times, God was there to forgive and forget and guide me on, He even blessed me, what and awesome God we serve, He love me so much, he even send true joy and happiness to me, he even make things appear a lot easier in my life now, he blessed me so much that i cant contain it anymore, the song one day keeps playing in my head. such and indescribable, wonderful and loving God we serve.
"SO BLESSED I CANT CONTAIN IT,
SO MUCH I WANT TO GIVE IT AWAY,
YOUR LOVE TAUGHT ME TO LIVE NOW,
YOU ARE MORE THAN ENOUGH FOR ME"
HELLO fellow bloggers, it is I again, yours truly KENNETH WONG, clap clap clap, chee perasaan, haha.
Any hows I realize one more thing in life, everything I do it I do it for God, I run, jog, eat, sleep, shower, and everything else, I do it for God and also God's will. When ever i do something and i pray over it, it feels easier to do and I find it very meaningful and it makes a whole lot of difference knowing that God is there for me.
And it feels great being my new person now, I live everyday fresh and full of love to give to and of course being happy and joyful for the lord is with me. I will from now try to spread the love of God as far as possible and of course i will help those who are in need with the help of my Father in heaven.
How awesome is him to heal my broken soul and to give me a new heart and mind, my words could not express the miracle that happen to me. I will make sure that my friends will experience the healing and loving power of God because there is no one on earth that could do this except God.
"IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE KNOWING GOD IS THERE WITH US"
Hello fellow bloggers, i notice one thing very interesting and wonderful in my life.
I notice that when i finally put to death the demon of depression in my life, GOOD RIDDANCE once and for all, somehow last time it decided to go for a holiday break. But this time i put it to death for good once and for all, i am a new being now.
I am so thankful that God has made me fresh a new, now my friends say that they are glad that i am back to my positive self again, the Kenneth they knew earlier in the year and also one more thing is that i could stand a chance to help others who are also going through this stage of depression in life.
I think that somehow all of us will go through depression in one stage or another, it is a good stage as there is a very good explanation behind it, remember the heart i drawn and post it on one of the post, well the heart show as an overall is the surface area of our emotional life and we fell depressed because there are some sediments or deep dark stored away feelings that needs to be cleaned, so if we all manage to persevere, we will be able to clean our heart and change it a new.
And i think the only way we should help a depressed person is to talk to him, listen to him, NEVER JUDGE him because its very cliche to him, help him solve his problems, help him let everything out and of course pray together as a whole that God will cleanse his heart through this process.
Be positive to someone is the best thing we can do to be nice and cheery, the moment we make someone happy or lifted his burden, the glory be to God and you have saved someone's day.
GOD + JOY + FAITH = HAPPYNESS IN LIFE
They say a woman can melt a mens heart but a Mom can heal a broken heart and that is so true.
As you all know by now that i have turn over a new leaf, being my positive self everyday, seeing each day as a blessing and of course not moaning anymore of the past but being grateful and appreciating the small things in life.
My week has been awesome and wonderful, so many new experiences and teachings in life, one great thing about God is that he never cease to teach and guide. I was having th time of my life, thought there are projects and homework and studies, the Lord never cease to be there for me and guiding me through everything in life.
Today is by far the most interesting day ever, i was happy the whole week and never want to cease being joyful in the Lord but today i face one major challenge and i am a bit shy to share this part, just know its a big task and i failed to accomplish the task but i still manage to look it over and take it easy, look things over and cheer myself up and the first time i manage to fight back depression by the good grace of God.
But somehow the depression kept knocking on my door and once in a while it will kick back in, so i prayed and asked God to help me, Lo and behold when i was doing my homework and chatting, my mom was online, so we had a nice chat like all mom would do with her son.
My mom was so good at comforting me and guiding me on, she loves me so much that no matter how many times i say i failed, she would encourage me to be stronger and persevere. At the end i felt this was God's help beacon for me, my mom was the person who i would think last to see about this challenge that i failed but what i did not know, is that she is the most understanding and caring person on earth towards me.
So next time if you have any problem, seek your mom for help, talk to her and just chat, who knows she might even help you solve your problem.
"OUR MOM IS OUR CLOSEST AND BEST FRIEND, WHOSE LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL TOWARDS HER CHILD, SHE WIPES OUR TEARS AND PICK US UP WHEN WE FALL." Amen
Good tidings to you fellow blog viewers, i am here once again with another post.
It is yet another week and day of my life, this week seems to be different that the rest of the week.
Why you ask? Because i have God with me there all the way, for the first time in my life, i am not sorrowful and in depression but what is most exciting is that God has reveal so many new things in my life.
In this week, i was able to experience the new me, that is now, i was never so changed and renewed, now everyday i am able to fulfill my quota of study and still have time for exercise and by God's good grace i was able to lose weight. The most exciting part is when i went jogging, i was persevering and patience.
Not to brag but this is the first time i was able to jog non stop, although there are times where i would slow down and do a slow jog but the best part of is there was time i wanted to stop and just walk somehow i did not stop, i kept on going, i went down all the way to the temple, went down hill some more and then non stop all the way uphill.
Dont know why but i just did not want to stop, i want to keep going but my legs could not anymore. Woa i have to day God was there with me all the way, giving me push, some how i feel him right beside me and coaching me on and giving me support.
All in all this week is a very blessed day and he has been so good to me, giving me comfort and guidance but most of all showing me love and compassion, when i want to be emo, i just look to him and instantly i am better, i have defeated the demon of depression in me.
I am change because of him and i believe he has many things installed for me.
Everyday is a new day, the old has gone the new has come, be glad in it and rejoice.
Hello fellow blog readers, here i am today again with another post but todays one will be a positive and good one.
I have finally found the happiness that trespasses all understanding, you don't know why but you are just happy because God has yet again once amaze me and touch my soul and with a little help from my friends, i manage to turn that emo self of mine into the happy positive KENNETH that i am always.
My friend Dillon wrote this something very true and realizing to me , when i started to tell him why i was depressed and sorrowful, he gave me all ears and gave me comfort but best of all, he understand me and taught me a lot through his e-mails and messenger.
He told me that every time we are depressed, we tend to think about the past but Christ has made a new being, the old has gone, the new has come. When we tend to keep looking back to the past, we tend to miss out the Good things that God has prepared for us in the present.
So through this simple words, i was able to revive myself again and God has help filled that void with unconditioning love and true joy. It is very true that when you learn to let go the past and move on, you will see that things around you start to get better.
When i finally stop being emo, start to appreciate the present and little things in life, i notice i am doing better than ever before, i have manage to live a life that is full and prosperous. By God's good grace, i was able to loss weight and slime down, i am able to do things i have never done before and i have been blessed so much.
Praise and glory be unto our God which is so merciful and caring to the lost and sinful, just remember this, when you feel your struggling all alone and feel left out, GOD LOVES AND CARES TOO MUCH ABOUT YOU TO LET YOU GO, Yes he is the only one who truly understands and loves us.
If you have any problem, pray to God, he knows what we are going through.
"Life can be a struggle but how we face the struggle determines the outcome of our day"
