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Saturday, January 16, 2010

Same interest or the first look attention?

First of all a big hi to my English teacher, she says i write too many complicated and theoretical post, so i am start things of a little simple minded this time, haha.

Hello everybody, today was a busy day for me as usual, who would've though i would be occupied on my Saturday 0.0 ?! First thing i was grateful, i got to wake up at 8.20am, finally a sleep satisfying. Then it was off to the gym at around 9, after my workout, a shower then off tuition from 11.30 to about 3.40 then it was off to church for youth cell group and then back home for a breather then off again to church for worship practice, then it was off to giant after the practice around 7 to get some groceries, then back home at about 8.30 for dinner, and now here i am around 11.30 writing this post, haha. Ok back to my topic.

As i was going through fb today, i just couldn't help but notice all the lovey dovey quotes and praises exchange between one of my friends and his gf, kononnya mau low-profile, ahem.

Anyways that started me thinking of an advice by my English teacher, she said that it was better to wait for love until uni because we can find people of the same interest and so on, mainly of course because of the study time table. I agree with that as it sounds logical and it is reasonable but i would like to also put forward my opinion and thoughs about this.

Many people now a days says that we can screw that whole personality and seeing their heart cliche statement, there is always that first attention graber or the first click and i belive strongly in this as well and its the truth behind blind love now a days but it is necessary for a relationship to spark or bloom.Haven you notice how some girls attention are grab away by all the bad boys, the look, the way they act, the way they behave, the way that they are just attracts them or even the good looking hunky handsome guys, which shining beauty and awe struck looks sweeps the girls off their feet, damn edward.

Also through my past "experiences", i have notice that i do not have that first attentiong graber to hook on a girl, now i understand why they call it fishing, its baiting and attracting the fish to grab it then slowly relling it in. Same concept, you need that bait, the attention graber, the one thing that makes them tell thier gurlfriends about you and then giving you the signals or even hinting you. Most of the times i will be the fish rather than the fisher, hook on to the line but not acceptable to the fisher and thrown back in the river, though hard as i try i will end up losing.

'sigh' whats a guy like me going to do, if i am too nice, girls despice me and think i am planning something, if i dont look good, i am just another guy, worse of all i dont know what i have that is special, that can get their attention, thats why i go to the gym, in hoping looking better can help give me chance, hopefully the outer beauty can help lead them to my inner beauty.

Like creed says, I feel its gonna rain like this for days, so let it rain down and wash everything aways, i hope that the sun tomorow will shine, with every tommorows comes another life.




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