Life is too short to be someone else

I read a comment by a anonymous person on the left hand side of my chat box and what struck me the most was the word 'VANITY' and the phrase "life is too short to be someone else"

I was not sure what the word vanity, so thanks to my good friend wikipedia, i went online to find the definition and what it means is

Vanity
excessive belief in one's own abilities or attractiveness to others

wooo thats quite deep, but it does make sense, we are vain in ourselves at times, believing that good looks conquers all other triads when sometimes its better to look at the heart and i must say that i am not guilty of being vain at times and of course preferring looks over personality.

Its true that we must not let vanity get the better of ourselves cause that is what the media is teaching us nowadays, tricking us to believe that beauty is everything, big arms, tight abs, a slim figure, hot body, big breast, small waist and what not nonsense to the point that we are poison in our mind to try to look as beautiful as the people we see on tv or magazine or any other media because we believe too much that good looks come first before everything else.


The phrase "life is too short to be someone else" , the meaning varies from all our point of view but the general meaning is there.

To me this phrase really gave me a hit, all these time i have been trying to be someone else, trying to be cooler, trying to be good looking, trying to be a super model, trying to be a ladies men, trying to be someone else better than myself, me 'Kenneth Wong'

I have realize that i was always trying to be someone else cause through the years of my life, some people have found the someone else of me better than the normal Kenneth wong, thats why i am always pressuring myself to be better than what i am capable of when all i needed what to be just myself when i should have been true to my heart and be my own true-self, i should not have let myself go through so much suffering and changes to satisfy someone else rather i should have done the changes for my own good, my own self.

yes we want to be beautiful but we must learn not to overdo ourselves, not to put too much pressure on ourselves, we must make sure that we are doing the right thing for the right reason.

Be beautiful for yourself and not others.

One of my good friend once told me that losing weight is a life changing thing, it changes character,looks and so much more but the most important part we miss out is a change of our heart.

why should I/we follow the worlds order? Why should i/we use beauty as a tool to get a relationship? Why should i/we be lying to others when i/we should be our true self?

Why cant I/We use my/our hearts and personality to find our partner in life?

A girl once told me that yes they are different ways that people find love, some use beauty to find love, some use their charm, some use their skills and etc but do you think this love will last long, would you be able to keep beauty, charm,skills and etc forever until your olden days to keep the love burning?

This is the love we should avoid, its a love that leaves you when you have lost that particular triad,you will leave each other just because honey you don't have that beauty,charm,skills and etc anymore.

Than there is another way which people find love, these people use their heart and personality to find love. Do you think this love will last a lifetime? would you be able to be your true-self from your heart to your personality? will they change until the end time? Can you use your heart and personality to keep that love going on until the day death do you part?

This is the love we should follow, its a love that last a lifetime, you will never leave each other. This is a life-long love that will conquer all.

Credit goes to Kar inn for inspiring me to write this out, for pointing me into the right direction, Thank you kim and i hope your love will be a life-long one =)

People its high time we get rids of the lies that the media throws towards us, its time to take a step of faith and start to be ourseves once again wherever you are, whenever and whoever you are!

Be your true-self and do not let vanity get a better hold of you!

I also would like to take this opportunity to thank all those who have been there to comfort and guide me in my time of hardship and confussion

It doesn't matter how hard you try,if you dont have it you cant get it

Something came to my mind today, you can never get somethings if you don't have a certain triad.

Many people except few of my friends dont know my life changing story of how i came from being so fat to being fit and i dont want to tell it anymore, long story short i lost weight to impress a girl and the girl was not impressed, now i am left hanging.....The past will be the past.

So here i was a new man, ready with a new confidence to take on any challenge in the world. So being a man as i am, i did a very harsh move, in other words i played with fire and got burned.

I taught after loosing weight, looking better than before, being fit and not fat,building muscles and getting contacts just to look better, i taught i would have a leverage this time but as it turns out i did not have the extra hand to win the game.

The lesson i got this time is no matter how much I've changed inside or outside, i will always and still be the same old Kenneth Wong.

No matter how many kilometer's you've run, how many aching muscles you've got, how heavy of a weight you lifted, how much of blood and sweat you have given off, how much tears you've cried, how much disappointment and victory you went through.

If you don't have the looks and criteria to match, you cant have it. That is just really pityfull and unfair.

A funny day a week

EUREKA! i am right now sitting in front of my com doing my usual stuff when my brain gave me a brainstorm and then a light bulb came on,THHIING! ohh shinny @-@

As many of the form 6ers know that this week we had started our so called new format of schooling and instead of ending at the normal time of 1.05pm, we are ending at 3.20pm everyday except Friday, TGIF! So this week we were doing really mundane stuff like drawing posters which i ended up drawing a cicak instead of a dragon,lol! and the other day we did research on whether or not sex educations should be introduced in school,BORING...and today we had to decorate our class in conjucnction with the merdeka month coming up soon.

So as usual being myself,Ken the man. I went a bit looney, in other words i lost it because imagine i have to stay back so late in school,its bad enough i have to be in school uniform,i have to eat stinking canteen food which i personally think is unhealthy and overpriced! and just when i am on my diet and body building plan, i feel the lack of nutriteints now everyday*arghh* So today in class instead of decorating, my old playful self of course came back to me,i went around doing crazy thing,acting silly and just plain stupid at times but one things for suer i sure love doing it,it made people laugh even myself.

So i was thinking, in todays society we are facing stress everyday,little things also will stress us out. Toilet cannot flush...stress... Steplar no more bullet...stress.....sweating around...stress.

as i was thinking back about today,i realize, hey laughter is really the best medicince there is. So why not nowadays in school,colleges, or even your workplace, we have a funny day a week.

A day where we can just joke around and have fun doing silly things, being crazy and just laughing around and best of all we get to enjoy doing it, when its work,its still work but on that particular day we are given permission to act silly abit just to lighten the burden and stress in the workplace.

For example,today we were decorating our class with the malaysia flags,ahh opportunities,i took the flag and started playing around with it, acting as the first malaysian to win the olympics,running around the corridor, acting as MalaysiaMan the first chinese superhero for malaysia and of course acting as lady liberty of malaysia by dressing myelf with the malaysia flag and wearing a handmade flower crown.

I guess my whole point is to let you people know that we never too old or young to be funny once in a while,just imagine the laughter and smile you put on peoples face,such a niec sight to see and whats best is the good feeling you feel after that. So go out there just enjoy the day by having fun, go sillly crazy nuts anything to brighten up your day and others.

So henceforth i declare every thursday and friday as funny day, you can join me if you want to as well, we can start this new revolution called the laughing people!

Transformer 2 is the movie of the year

Last saturday i went to catch transformer 2 revenge of the fallen with my family in Tropicana city gsc and Finally after weeeeeeeekkkkkssss of waiting i get to catch the movie i always wanted tpo watch this year and it was worth the wait.

Transformers 2 revenge of the fallen was the bomb,great storyline with humour,romance,thriller,action and most of all heart felt emotions were flying from the kissing to the figthing to the dead of a fellow autobot to the plot of the story. To me everything was laid out so nicely, the storyline was very good most of all the robots were made at their best both autobots and decepticons.

I love the way the movie still keep the original voices of each of the transformers especially my favourite decepticon SOUNDWAVE, ohh when i heard him speak, at first though i am sure they could not copy the voice that the cartoon did but waooo the voice sounded better than the cartoon one giving it a more sinister tone but its a pity he did not came down and fight but if he did, it would be a one sided battle as it is already.

So i would give trnaformers 2 revenge of the fallen 10stars for great cgi, great actors, great humour, great storyline, great battle, great voiceover,great scenery and most of all the great making of the Transformers.

Also i went to cacth Ice Age 3, one word FUNNY! my favourite part is the part where they accidently got stuck in this green gas which makes them laugh to death but they folled around especially the part where they copied a;vin and the chipmunks.