What is wrong with having BGR?

I came across many people not you nice people but others who tell me that BGR is no good, its a waste of time, its bad for the young.

I been thinking that people should not look at BGR(boy-girl relationship) in a bad way only, there is always two ways at looking at things, take for example TV, the good thing is it keeps you entertained and up to date with the latest news, the bad thing its addicting and you must filter what tv shows to you.

Well same thing as looking at BGR, there is two ways at looking at it, well let me start off with the BAD part since everyone i've come across not you nice readers tell me its so called "BAD" True BGR is also bad, ok i hate using te word bad, let me say this again. True BGR is not good for us, there is a few bad point about it. Well, from my point of view, not following others, here goes:

1) It can end up being the main cause of depression
2) It requires commitment and responsibility
3) It can be addictive to some like those lovely dovy times
4) It may affect ur studies, maybe cannot study cause thiking too much about the girl, haha
5) Sometimes there are little fights which are sometimes memorable and sometimes hurting

Well that is all that i can think off but please forgive me if any of these is not right as i am looking it at my point of view.

Moving on BGR also have some good in it, let us see:

1) You understand the opposite sex better
2) You learn about responsibility
3) You learn about patience and being the man
4) You become more appreciative of things around you but mostly HER
5) You somehow feel happy to know that there is someone special there for you
6) You are happy to know someones love and care for you and vice versa
7) You become a changed man
8) It might become the motivation to become a better person
9) You understand how to handle people better
and many more but of course again, this is from my point of view, so please forgive me if there is anything wrong.

Well then i hope this can make you think a while that you cant always look at things in a bad ways except those that can kill you like smoking, alcohol, sex before marriage, all these bad thing. they are BAD from the beggining.

Always remember, we can be very easily manipulated, if one day someone came up to you and told you that that guy VERY bad, no good. You mihgt be saying oh yeah i did not know and then your go on gossiping about bad things which he never did or is going to do. So next time before just falling for people's saying, stop and think, look at things in two ways, find out the truth behind it like i did.

We should all practice this. LOOK THINGS AT TWO WAYS.