Yes its sad but true, i don't know about all you guys out there but i am addicted to Love.
I don't know whether me have this problem but there are times when i just wish i had someone special to hug and love, yes there is always that one moment. See the biggest weakness and tough part of being a guy is you constantly have to struggle on relationships, have to be patience when you want to get a girl, must be polite, must be gentleman, must be humble.
But being a guy also have its good parts like every time we fall, the girls never cease to pick us up and dust off the dust from us and push us on in Life's challenges, we persevere, we have passion, we have strength that is never ceasing, we press on in Life's never ending struggle.
Ok back to my point, i always yearn to have this wonderful feeling, that kind of feeling that makes your heart melt, your spirit soar high and your feel like in cloud nine. The kind of feeling that you get when you have that special someone to hold on, hug, kiss, and share the special moment. All lover birds out there should know what i mean.
Though i never had the chance to experience it myself, but i can feel it in a distant, the kind of feeling that literally change your whole being. But like they all say it is just a feeling but i guess its just who i am.
I took this personality test on how is my love life, and ok i know that some times this things are inaccurate but i think it really best describes me.
It says that i am a passionate lover, i cherish every moment i spend with that special someone, i ams loyal and faithful to that special someone and i am grateful and appreciate every moment i have with that special someone and many more.
I guess that i have to be patience on Love and relationship, though it might seem like every one is getting relationship, i guess i must take it slow in order for thing to turn out right. I have to be faithful in God to guide me to the right one, hopefully this FATS will go away soon.
Well i confess and admit that i am really addicted to LOVE, it might be the one thing i am constanly trying to find in my life but it is happening like a puzzle, slowly solving the picture and revealing the picture in whole when it is done.
I regret that i did not try to start things earlier with the girl but God's timing is always perfect, only he knows whats best for me. Only he can know who that special someone is for me, you know a lot of people say that we should sit back relax and let God lead that someone special to you. I can tell you now it will never work.
You first have to take the first step by making as many new friends as possible, guy and girl.
Here is one thing i learn that we should do if we like a girl,
1) never walk up to her and tell her I LOVE YOU, you will freak out the girl and she might not like you or maybe even know you, she will probably be thinking who is this weirdo.
2) take things slow, dont rush and jump into a relationship, be patient and get to know her first, that way she will slowly gain confidence in you.
3) dont try to be around her all the time, give her some space, if not then she feels like she is being stalked.
4) be a social active guy, show her that your a fun guy to hang around with and that your are a really nice, lovable and fun guy to be with.
5) BE PATIENT, i am stressing this because i have friends who keep asking me to faster get the girls phone number and faster form a relationship, yeah it might work but i will slowly and surely lose her, remember point 2 and of course you find it easier to communicate and interact with each other in the long run to come.
6) Be patient in hard times, dont pounce on the girl and let all hell break loose on her, when you are in a bad mood, take time to cool down and dont whin to them, when she is in a bad mood, this is a good time to cheer her up and maybe win her heart or prove to her you are the right gujy to be with her, this part is going to be alot more harder than me saying it.
7) Hygiene, cleaniness and manners. Keep yourself clean and smelling good, dont put too much deo, you dont want the girl to faint, make sure you bath proparly.
well that is all i can think of for now, so after seeing this, yes i am addicted to LOVE and want a girlfriend but i've got to be a better person first and prepare myself now for the love of my life in the future.
Trust me when i say, God knows the best thing in life for us and he has already prepare the best for us, you think the girl infront of you now is the most perfect but guess what if that relationship with the first girl does not work, you break up, you complain to God.
But believe me if you are patient and faithful, God will grant you that special someone and you will surely say waoo she more then i expected her to be. You see , i am sure you will say that God really knows what is best for us.
Thats all i have for now, God bless your days ahead, take care and dont forget to SMILE and be HAPPY and JOYFUL in the Lord.
"I though i knew what is best for me but turns out God plans my future thus making him know what best for me better than i do."
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